To hear a woman say she achieved a vaginal orgasm is a rare occurrence. Historically, there has been a large knowledge gap when it comes to the science of female orgasms. The same study found that less than 1 in 5 women are able to orgasm through vaginal stimulation.
For many men, the idea of someone touching their prostate you know, that walnut-sized gland between the bladder and the penis sounds about as appealing as getting a root canal. But for other men — both straight and gay — exploring the prostate can bring new heights of sexual excitement and pleasure. It's so pleasurable, in fact, that some sexual health experts have dubbed the prostate the "male G-spot.
But they exist, and with a little awareness and attention, you can get the Os you deserve, from the fireworks-on-display kind to the calm oh-my-gods. When you find yourself missing out on the Big O, there are three likely culprits: expectations, communication, and method. And alongside all of that, experimenting is required.
Full disclosure: I have had anal sex before, and I hated it. Clearly, I wasn't doing it right. You shouldn't just be a receptacle for someone else's good time.
This article is part of the Beducated Female Orgasm Series. You can browse all 8 Female Orgasms here. When it comes to pleasure, there are many doors that lead to orgasms.
Meaning, yes, you can have orgasms during anal sex. Whatever your gender, the anus and rectum are part of your sexual apparatus; the nerves and musculature are connected, and anal, rectal, and perineal stimulation all affect the genitals, both directly and indirectly, says Patricia Johnson, co-author of Partners in PassionGreat Sex Made SimpleTantra for Erotic Empowermentand The Essence of Tantric Sexuality. In women, anal penetration stimulates the erectile tissue in the lower part of the vagina and the G-spot.
Orgasms are amazing, euphoric and energizing. Anal orgasms can feel even better than genital orgasms. Primarily, they can be experienced in two ways, by people with a prostate men and people without a prostate women.